From episode: Life Observations Psychic Christine Wallace Mystical Charms And Things
If you see a red flag, you've got to learn to trust yourself. That's another thing, trusting yourself. How many of my viewers or listeners here are always second guessing themselves? Why do you second guess yourself? That's another question. Why do I not trust my own judgment? Think about it. Is it because you've made too many mistakes in the past? Is it because when you were young that someone may have told you what you want to do and what you're feeling or your conclusion about something isn't right and I have more knowledge and I have more life experience and I have more wisdom, so whatever it is that you're thinking, feeling or whatever, whatever is inaccurate. So if you hear that enough times, yeah, and from someone that you love and respect, the messenger matters. You know, if it's someone you love and respect like your mother or your father, you're going to take that kind of criticism to heart, you know, but it's supposed to be, see the problem is also with the subconscious mind. It's supposed to be that kind of stuff. It's supposed to be constructive criticism. But the problem is, is that it's like a poor choice of words in trying to relay, meaning how the parent is relaying the message to us. They might not mean anything by it, but how we take it, you know, matters. And those are for the parents of the world that really cares, care about their children. You know, and of course we have those lovelies that are just child abusers and whatever. And a lot of the second guessing yourself and low self -esteem and all that nice and good stuff comes, can come from abusive parents as well. And anyone who ever went through something like that knows that, you know, they're going through whatever they're going through because of it. And that doesn't mean, you know, you got to close the book on your future. The problem is in those cases, we experience a lot of like negative intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, almost like a PTSD diagnosis. And you don't have to be a therapist to know that that's what you're going through. But the mind is a creature of habit. And if you keep doing that for so long or whatever, it's like, you know, trying to quit smoking, it's tough, but it's doable. Okay. And you just need the right tools to get through it all and overcome it. I want to remind a lot of my viewers and listeners here that you don't have a terrible life. If that's what you're thinking, that is not the case. You might be having a terrible week or a terrible few years or a terrible day, but you're not having a terrible life.